Blog: Dating, but always get into argument. What do I do?
Cherry Yap
Published 09/14/2009
- 8:34 p.m. GMT
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My boyfriend
and I have been dating for a total of 3 years now, but we always get into
argument. Whenever we had big argument, he would break up with me. Then few
weeks later we would get together again as if nothing ever happen, and then it
will repeat again. I know I love him, so as he, but I’m tired of this on-off-on
again relationship. Please advice.
Laura (Irvine, CA)
What a ‘happening’ relationship you have with your
boyfriend. This may sound harsh, but I just have to say it. It seems both of
you are not really into this relationship anymore. I think deep down you do
know about this too, otherwise you won’t write this to me.
In every healthy and wise relationship, every argument
should never lead into breaking-up solution, as that’s going to leave scar in
both of you, no matter how. Slowly that scars will build up and eventually it
will become unavoidable that you have to ‘take out’ that scars from yourself.
Whenever a couple is in an argument, they should discuss it
with open mind. When you are in argument and full with emotion, try to leave
the room for awhile to calm yourself first. Never try to have argument when you
are very emotional, because you will end up saying things that you will regret
later on.
If both of you truly treasure your relationship, never say
the word “Break Up” anymore whenever both of you have argument; try to work it
out and make it work.
However, if you are always get into argument with your
boyfriend on every little thing; it is time for you think if that’s a
relationship you want to have forever. I don’t know what kind of things that
make you both argue, it could be major things (like cheating with another
woman) but it could also be nothing at all (like being late for appointment,
forget anniversary).
Don’t you feel tired to always have to argue on everything?
Don’t you wish to have relationship that’s wiser, understanding, communicative
and loving? Have a think about it. Good luck, dear.
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